You know the “5 Love Languages,” right? Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. Well, we’ve gone ahead and given them a green thumb makeover! Here are some ways you can shower your partner with love this Valentines Day.
Acts of Service: Doing the Dirty Work
Sometimes, love means getting your hands a little dirty for someone else’s plants. This love language is all about taking action to ease their plant parent burden.
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Rescue Mission: Re-potting your partner’s root-bound “problem child” plant without being asked? That’s pure love. (Just be cautious if they don’t like people touching their plants).
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Humidifier Hero: Constantly running the humidifier or refilling it shows you care about their tropicals (and them!).
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Dust Buster: Gently cleaning the dust off those big Monstera leaves so they can actually find the measly 6 hours of sun we get in winter. Time consuming for them, thoughtful of you!
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Light Up Their Life: Installing full-spectrum grow lights so your partner’s succulents stop “stretching” for the window. You’re literally bringing light into their life.
Physical Touch: The Sensory Experience
This isn’t just about touching your partner; it’s about sharing sensory experiences with plants.
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A Plant for Their Hands: Gift a “Sensitive Plant” (Mimosa pudica) that reacts to touch, or a fuzzy Lamb’s Ear, to engage their tactile senses.
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Scent-sational Memories: Select a plant with a memorable scent – like a fragrant Jasmine or a citrusy Geranium – to trigger beautiful memories every time they catch a whiff.
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Togetherness with Twigs: Misting plants or re-potting them together. Think less “Ghost” pottery scene, more shared soil and gentle hands, but the intimacy is there!
Quality Time: Grow Together
Spending focused, undivided time together, especially around your shared plant passion, is incredibly powerful.
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Seed Starting Date Night: Grab some seed packets, potting mix, and two glasses of wine. Spend an evening getting your hands dirty together.
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Spider Mite Surveillance: Okay, maybe not the most romantic, but grabbing flashlights and checking for spider mites on your plants is a shared mission! It shows teamwork and dedication.
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Garden Centre Excursion: A date to the garden centre is always a good idea! Wander, dream, and pick out a new plant baby to nurture together.
Words of Affirmation: Plant Puns & Praises
This love language uses verbal expressions to affirm your affection. And what better way to do that than with plants?
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A Plant That Speaks: Gifting a plant with a name that says it all—like a “Peace Lily” after a spat, or a “String of Hearts” just because.
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Talk the Talk: Seriously, talking to your plants (and your partner about how much you love their plants) is gold.
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Punny Power: Personalize a shirt, card, or mug with a plant pun.
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“Are you an invasive species? Cuz I’d like to take you out!”
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“I’m Lichen you a lot.”
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“I love you more than a Canadian plant parent loves a south-facing window in February.”
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“You’re my Soilmate!”
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“Are you a node? Because I really want to see where we can grow from here.”
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“Are you an Orchid? Because you’re a total showstopper and I’m terrified of messing this up.”
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Receiving Gifts: Thoughtful Green Goodies
For some, nothing says “I love you” like a perfectly chosen gift. And for plant people, that means plants!
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Wishlist Whisperer: Give them that “wishlist” houseplant you know they’ve been eyeing. Bonus points if you’ve actually overheard their hints.
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The Perfect Pot: A beautiful, high-quality pot or a unique piece of gardening decor can be just as exciting as a new plant!
